About Me
MEET MALLORY
Hello, Friend. I’m Mallory (she/her), and I’m deeply touched that you’ve made it to my small pocket of the vast internet in your endeavor to connect with someone for support on your mental health journey.
On a very human level, I admire you for your grit, tenacity, and vulnerability in even considering allowing someone into your life in such a personal and deep way.
In my own similar yet different way, I’ve been where you are – and I remember how challenging it was to invite someone in when I was already in pain. I’ve lived my own stories of trauma, anxiety, depression, racial identity exploration, and experiencing wounding and betrayal in my close relationships, and I can still connect to how lonely and overwhelming it can be to carry it all on your own.
I’ve also been someone who has buried my own emotional and mental pain by disconnecting from myself and losing myself in the pursuit of each “next thing”: finding ways to always be there for others but never for myself, chasing after high-intensity career opportunities, forever believing that the next level of education, certification, or professional opportunity would finally help me feel like I was enough. Truth talk: it never actually did, so you’re not alone if what you’re chasing after never quite feels within reach.
After experiencing significant betrayal trauma in an abusive marriage, I found myself divorced in my 20s (during the peak of the COVID-19 pandemic) and reeling to piece my life back together or find any sense of stability. My anxiety, severe depression, and abandonment fears were severely impacting my sleep, eating habits, friendships and work. I had always been the person who had been strong for others, could put my emotions to the side, never asked for support, and could always find a way to keep myself busy in order to bypass my own bodily experiences and emotions. I couldn’t find a way to make that work for me anymore, and it terrified me to my core.
I, like you are now, perused the internet trying to find a potential therapist whose face felt affirming and kind, who’s “about me” page and website had words that resonated with me and instilled a sense of empathy and care, and who I could muster up enough courage to send that initial email or fill out their contract form. I was terrified, anxious, and – quite frankly, nauseous – when I walked into my first appointment with the compassionate and trustworthy human who became my therapist. Through that connection, I discovered purposeful healing and experienced firsthand the transformative power of reconnecting with oneself through exploration of core wounds, innate strengths, and identifying our own personal ways of making sense and meaning of the world around us. Because I’ve experienced this myself and walked my own journey as a fellow human who has experienced hurt and confusion, I am so deeply confident that it is possible for you, too.
We are all deserving of our own version of healing and discovering our innate ability to reclaim our identity through finding meaning and purpose in our stories – both the joyful ones and the painful ones. I am honored to embark on your unique journey with you.
“Generational patterns, problems, and trauma are passed down as inherited legacies of suffering. While we can’t escape them or reverse them, I believe that we have antidotes that exist outside of our generational inheritance of trauma or suffering. Glimmers of empowered personal truth, Self-compassion, and paths to making meaning are also passed down; we simply need to know where to look for them and how to weave them into our stories. We have the power to create our own new legacies of healing.”
I passionately believe that lived experience often does more to help others feel seen, heard, and understood in a meaningful way that doesn’t always come from simply being educated or trained. I certainly have my own mountain of lived experience with my life presenting me with pain, challenges, and hardship. The process of re-authoring my own story in a way that is now filled with purpose and meaning has uniquely prepared me to support you with heartfelt empathy and strong emotional resonance.
You and your story make sense to me.
EDUCATION
Master of Science Degree in Marriage & Family Therapy | 2024
700+ direct client contact hours through clinical internship training
500+ graduate level professional supervision by an American Association for Marriage & Family Therapy (AAMFT) approved supervisor
Bachelor of Science in Nursing | 2015
Bachelor of Arts in Psychology,
Pre-Medical Minor | 2015
“Knowledge rooted in experience shapes what we value – and as a consequence, how we know what we know as well as how we use what we know.”
BELL HOOKS
LIVED EXPERIENCE
Spent 10+ years in the healthcare field, working in critical care/trauma specialties as a registered nurse
Lived experience with the trauma and grief of the COVID-19 pandemic as a frontline healthcare professional
Established my own small business/brand in the creative industry, and experienced first-hand the challenges and intensity that come with entrepreneurship
Adult child of divorced parents, resulting in complicated and painful family dynamics in both my childhood and my adult life
Grew up in a small rural town with strong influences of religion that I have worked to deconstruct build a new relationship with in order to embrace my own version of faith and spirituality
Experienced the grief that comes with the sudden loss of a close family member
Struggled with perfectionism and intense
self-criticism
Divorced in 2021 after experiencing betrayal trauma and patterns of abuse
Navigated dating – in the online dating/dating app era, no less – after being in a long term relationship for 6+ years
Experienced extreme burnout and loss of identity related to my healthcare profession